Here is Why You’re Failing at Texting Girls
What I wanted cover in this topic regarding texting girls is calibration. Most guys who are at the intermediate level, still forget how to do this properly. It’s important to understand that texting girls is an art and not a particular science. Although you may disagree fully, I’m sticking out my neck here and saying it’s mostly art with some canned texts here and there, but mostly it’s a flowing art form as is most of the daygame approach that’s done properly.
Texting girls isn’t a need for speed time trial where the track is cleared of cars and you zoom straight towards the finish line. Texting girls is more of a Thrilling Roller Coaster with highs and lows, where you’re nipping between heavy traffic flow constantly and adapting to the constantly changing flow.
What you need to first understand is whether she’s “a texter” or “non-texter” at first glance early on. About 3/4 of them are “texting types” and prefer conversations to remain on text, but there will be some who prefer real phone conversations to take place.
The non-texter typically has responses that are short and unimaginative in any way. She’s still into you enough to respond because the most fundamental rule in texting girls is:
Texting Girls Rule: “If she’s responding to your texting at all she is attracted to you”
Your first priority is to figure this out. Once that’s done, you move on to building more comfort and pushing for the date. Get the date!
Be persistent, but not needy or overly eager. This means reply at your own convenience and not always right away. Reply randomly when you “feel like it”. Maintain the same investment levels and keep increasing her “buying temperature” through “push pull push” techniques. Tease + Compliment + Another tease.
Don’t tease too hard if the girl isn’t as hot, because she doesn’t have that much confidence and attention from men like a model or someone of similar status.
Avoid negging or teasing too hard if she’s giving you massive interest and investment levels. It’s just overly gamey and doesn’t need to be in the equation. Use teasing for “damage control” and spiking up the attraction if you feel “you’re loosing her”.
Basically, you should remember that If I was to broadcast your text message conversations to the entire nation on BBC live as breaking news, you should feel proud. If that’s not the case, you’re doing it wrong.