Crucial Conversational Elements of EVERY Best Pickup Artist
Flaking is a huge problem for guys in the beginning stages of learning daygame. A lot frustration and problems arise from this. It’s been a huge problem for us here at The Daygame as well, but after hammering away for many years we figured out the small root cause of the problem.
It comes down strictly to your interaction with the girl, your commitment to improving your approach, keeping on plowing through your sticking points and improving all your weaknesses to get a very solid number. However, the next set of ideas are more than ideas. These crucial elements I’m about to discuss are vital to your success with daygame.
One big thing I’ve noticed that a lot guys are doing wrong is extracting the number from the girl and being result focused. You must display actual authentic interest in the girl for the conversation to be authentic and give her the full illusion that it was a real moment in that particular time period. Whether it’s fully real or not, it’s your job to make it real by actually feeling the emotions and displaying them in the “correct order” to give the illusion of the real thing. The best pickup artist understands this element and truly embodies those emotions.
The best pickup artist knows a good conversational mix contains some crucial elements beyond just bread and lettuce. It has a big slab of meat in the middle that you can sink your teeth into. A good conversation is just as meaty. When making a statement in daygame you should load it with a couple of nouns or emotions that act as conversational meat she can bite into.
For example: Here is something the best pickup artist has done consistently.
You: I imagine (1) growing up in (2) Ukraine is very different to (3) central New York.
Her: Yes. (a) Ukraine is a (b) beautiful country with very (c) lively nightlife, but it’s much (d) more relaxed than here.
Basically each piece of the conversation has some many “threads” or “ segues” you can take that you should never be at a loss for words. Just pick one and steer the conversation in that direction. Thus, in this example you could continue to talk about any one of the four possible topics presented by her. This must be done in a manner designed to strengthen the hook and build strong rapport with her on that particular topic. Bear in mind we’re still in the early stages of the first few minutes so we don’t want to turn the electricity of the conversation off just yet. At this point the conversation should still be lively, full of emotive language and light-hearted.
Focus on this aspect of your daygame and you’ll soon become the best pickup artist in your city or even country.