Texting a Girl After Daygame Pickup
Now that you have a girls’ contact details you must do something about it. Texting a girl immediately after daygame pickup may not be the best option. Why? She has disappeared into the crowd, and within minutes the electricity you created will fade and the rapport between the two of you will weaken. She is no longer directly within your aura of masculine dominance and the love bubble will pop. The paragraphs below details how to use digital communication to get her out onto a date.
Ultimately you are facing two possibilities here: Short Term Game or Long Term Text and Phone Game. Each woman responds differently and has her own agenda (trust me, you don’t even want to know) when it comes to saying yes to a date. Usually you will try to get the girl out soon (texting), but many leads are simply logistically not practical for you. This will force you to play the long game. That means texting her once every week or every couple of weeks, to remind her of your existence and occasional exchanges here and there.
The Goal of Your Text Exchanges is to Get Her Out on a Date:
You should always say that you are trying to get her on a date, not a “meet up” and not to “hang out.” That’s weak and makes the interaction uncertain and women like certainty demonstrated in a confident way. You want her to be showing up with the expectation of a man-woman interaction.
Even if your hook point was strong, you don’t know what her life circumstances maybe and how interested she is in you, so the temptation to soft-pedal the invitation is strong. Don’t fall into the Newbie Trap of getting her onto a date without knowing your intentions.
Drill it into your mind that the purpose of texting is to get the date. There is nothing more, nothing less to it. Sometimes there will be girls who are logistically unavailable.
“The basics to your text game are – Engage in a couple of light text exchanges and then after about three back-and-forth exchanges push for a date. “
All the probing questions you should’ve asked and your reading of her energy levels, her keenness, her character all set the tone and speed of your text game. Likewise, it depends how your own vibe came out during the approach, because you should present the same persona in texts. Be congruent with your Phone and Text Game. You know that she liked what you showed her on the street and will respond to that side of you.
These points on texting a girl should help you get her out on a date. Leave your questions and concerns below.