Top 3 Inner Game and PUA Body Language Mistakes You Are Most Likely Making in Daygame
Do You Make These 3 “PUA Body Language” Mistakes?
Here are some typical PUA body language mistakes and inner game mistakes that a lot of newbies make in daygame:
1. A typical PUA body language mistake stems from weak inner game. The newbies will rush to fill the silence with babble. This projects low value, as a guy who needs to talk to keep her there, a guy who isn’t comfortable with awkwardness, and sets up a frame of a guy entertaining/girl-listens which will kill all future investment from her. Allow the silence. If you’re gonna give this girl your time she’s gonna have to play her part too. Entitlement queens are filtered out. This is a very no-nonsense approach to game. That’s why you should adopt this frame.
2. Imploring eyes. If you feel like you need the girl to stay and talk to you (or otherwise you’ll be sad) then she’ll feel it. You’ll have puppy dog eyes, raised eyebrows, a cocked head, lean in or any number of non-verbal indicators of weakness. Control this aspect of your PUA body language. This mainly stems from inner game weaknesses. Just hold solid eye contact and accept that if she walks away it’s no problem and no big deal.
3. Sub-communicate that’s all there is to the interaction. This is where most PUAs fail with their lack of PUA body language awareness. If you do it correctly, the girl will take your lead. If you sub-communicate “ I’ve said my piece and we’re finished here, she will thank you and walk away” even if she likes you. You’ve told her non-verbally that the frame is simply a compliment and then you’re going separate ways. Rather you should sub-communicate that this is the beginning of a conversation. It’s very subtle and will take a long time to master. Just keep in your mind the frame you want and it’ll find it’s way through your micro-behaviors.
I hope you’ve learned all there is to learn about the PUA body language mistakes in daygame.
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