5 Easy Fixes For Your Phone Game PUA Going Wrong
The worst frame that many PUAs fall into with their phone game is endless banter. This is where you’ve become her “texting buddy”. Stop doing that.
You will notice that once your game has improved to the level where girls enjoy the banter, you will be tempted into continuously texting her back and forth over and over again. Avoid this like the plague.
What ends up happening is, you end up in endless back-forth banter where she’s giggling and squealing and responding to your call-back humour and flirting. The only problem with this, is she doesn’t commit to a date and never comes out on a date, so you’re just wasting your time.
Why does this happen?
There Are Multiple Reasons For Your Phone Game PUA Going Wrong or Succeeding:
She legitimately has a boyfriend. Sometimes you can still pimp it and this requires quite a bit of effort and intricate skill. Highly skilled intermediate to advanced players can sometimes pull this off and get her on a date and maybe even go all the way to the end. This often happens if the girl is in a relationship where she is:
- Not sexually satisfied.
- Not getting enough attention from her boyfriend.
- wants adventure because she is bored and she feels like she is missing some aspect from her life that she isn’t getting in her relationship.
- Relationship is ending, or on the verge of it, but her boyfriend just doesn’t know it yet.
- She has a high sexual drive and her boyfriend can’t keep up with her drive.
2) Doesn’t physically fancy you but your game is tight enough that she enjoys being in the moment with you via text, although your game is super tight. She continues texting you back and forth and enjoys being caught up in the moment with you via text.
3) You’re over gaming her and enjoy using attraction spikes for the sakes of using attraction spikes to get a positive reaction. Always push for the date and if she turns you down, that is completely ok, because you’ve done your part and you no longer will waste your time and energy on her because it’s a bad investment of time on your part to continue here. Rejection sooner is better than later because you otherwise waste too much of your effort and get nothing in return.
4) Be congruent in your phone game PUA. You have to believe that what you showed her on the street, she enjoyed and she will respond to your invite to a date.
5) Be sure to push for date as soon as possible and eliminate time wasting attention whores. Keep self-discipline. After all, it doesn’t make sense to entertain a girl and get nothing in exchange for a while.
Before sending her the first text you should check of the following 5 things and calibrate your message to her using these 5 things:
- Is she really into you or not
- Logistics: Does she live in your city or if she visiting
- How open minded she is about meeting new people
- How busy is she and does she have a lot of time on her hands
- Does she enjoy banter or is her preference to play it simple and direct like a Russian model would.
Your next step in the game is to classify her into the texting or non-texting type? Which is she?