How to Create Attraction With Women ?
It may seem like a big challenge for a lot of men these days. Too many guys are in their head all day analyzing and over-analyzing attraction and trying to figure out how to create attraction with women. There is your problem already, you are over analyzing it to death. Stop it! You have to allow attraction to happen naturally and not force it too much, otherwise you make the woman feel like you’re trying to get something from her and that in itself is what kills it.
Let’s discuss some ways how to create attraction with women using daygame.
1. The first thing you need to do if you want to understand how to create attraction with women is to Kill Abigail. I’m not talking about your next door neighbor. I’m talking about that voice inside your head that tells you that you NEED women. Abigail says that you need to have a woman in your life who will constantly make you feel needed because you get your self-worth from having women around you. You absolutely need a woman in your life to make you feel better. You are walking around your house all day and wondering if she’ll call back or return your text. This is a terrible thing to do and it kills your chances of building attraction with any new women you meet. You are always thinking about Abigail and how much you NEED some particular woman. This is because you have defined your personal value by being around women and your neediness comes through in your interactions with women. It comes through in your body language, in your text messages and you fail to create quality attraction every time you’re interacting with a girl you may be into. This neediness level must be dropped down low, and you have to address it by filling your life with more interesting hobbies, a good enjoyable job, hitting the gym, playing sports, meeting up with friends for drinks and just being social altogether for the sake of just being social.
2. How to create attraction with women the right way? I generally like to stay away from specific techniques or tricks that some PUA companies may teach you. Here is how to create attraction with women properly.
a) Focus on your vibe and positive energy you’re putting out. Talk about funny experiences, or stories that happened to you. Maybe a funny accident that happened to you that shows you have an interesting life. Perhaps, you went skiing and fell a couple of times and something funny happened like you wiped out while learning to ski, lost your ski poles and while wiping snow of your face a little 5-year-old kid came to bring you poles and asked if you were ok while you were wiping snow of your face. That’s an embarrassing and funny story. Laughter creates light attraction in women and is one of the fundamental basics to creating attraction with women. It shows confidence that you can talk about your failures in a positive light and make it look funny. Don’t be afraid to display your vulnerabilities in that way, because that gives an insight to a girl.
b) Create a futuristic projection of you and the girl together on some romantic getaway, getting married in a hotel in Mexico or the beach in Paraguay and gambling your life savings away in a local casino to a drug dealer. Frame it in a non-serious way so she knows it’s light-hearted and funny. Make sure she invest in the interaction by contributing to the story. Avoid carrying the weight of the interaction 100% on your shoulders. Get her to invest by following the next point.
c) Push/Pull technique is rather misunderstood by the PUA community so I won’t get into it too much, but it’s a crucial element in learning how to create attraction with women. Push is something that makes the girl question if you like her, by teasing her verbally and pulling her in is something done to show your interest. Do this push/pull together like this; Verbally tell her she reminds you of a silly cartoon (Mickey Mouse) from your childhood or something teasing in that manner while physically pulling her in and giving her a warm “hug” like you accept her “flaw” or holding her cheeks with your palms as in admiring her beauty with your eyes. I hope that makes it clear. Do the push/pull technique together, otherwise it’s just not congruent and weird and comes across like you’re trying something which kills attraction instantly. This is somewhat of an advanced concept and it’s part of physical escalation.
- How to create attraction with women using high value authentic game: work on your real value via a personal transformation so that you slowly genuinely become a man of high value. The type of man who any girl would feel lucky to talk to or meet. Your game then becomes a mechanism for conveying your real character as efficiently as possible. You don’t act as a role and most of your advances come from removing the obstacles to conveying that value. This type of authentic game is the best way to address your questions on; how to create attraction with top-level beauty & character women.
This should be enough for you to get you started learning: How to create attraction with women.
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