Daygame Openers – Why you should forget about them.
Ok, so why should you forget about daygame openers? To achieve real success in Daygame, and use daygame openers properly, you have to understand that it’s not a bar scene and people are sober. Women are very in-tuned with what you’re saying, and they pick up on all subtleties which they may miss in a bar setting. That means you have to be nearly 100 percent authentic. Now why am I telling you this? What the hell does this have to do with daygame openers?
You’re probably thinking, just give me the goddamn opener. What’s the perfect line, that PUAs and gurus use all the time to open sets. What’s the magical pill? Come on, just give it to me straight. Here is the thing though, if you want to really succeed with opening a woman using daygame openers, you must understand that your success is not so much dependent on what you say but rather how you say it. I will give you the line, but if you want to truly master Daygame Openers and the art itself, don’t use this opener as some canned routine that you’ve heard others use, because eventually you’ll hit a plateau and never grow in your game passed a certain stage. Please don’t rely on this line as some magical bullet that will have women getting down on their knees and blowing you immediately after this opener. For the sake of you finding this page and actually reading this far, the standard daygame openers that are provided for beginners go something like this “ I just saw you walk past and I had to stop and tell you, that I think you’re cute ” or “I was just waiting for a friend when you walked past, I’ve stopped to tell you that I think you’re quite pretty. You have a rather graceful walk.“
Let’s discuss Daygame Openers in true light as it should be seen.
- Authentic communication is key here. You’re coming from a place of observation and communicating with the women from you deep inner core. When you’re using your authentic daygame openers, you’re there to tell her you’re interested in an authentic, natural and observational way which will get her captivated. Now let’s picture this interaction for a second: If you’re about to approach a unique looking woman that has caught your eye with one of the many possible pre canned daygame openers that you’ve memorized. Is that opener gonna seem like a spontaneous natural type of thing where you happen to spot her and you’ve never done this before, but decided to come over and tell her so. No! You’re gonna sound rehearsed with your daygame openers and during day women being sober will immediately pick up on the fact that something is not quite right in your delivery. She won’t know exactly what it is, but her inner subconscious will tell her that something is off. Women are naturally wired to spot in-congruencies. Thus, when you’re using Daygame Openers and your delivery, body language and others things (that are more key to getting a successful start to a conversation) are still in the developmental stages, you’re probably gonna get blown out a lot more than if you went with the observational daygame openers that are spontaneous type approach.
- Gage her style, walk and quickly size her up, so to speak. When you approach, deliver an observational daygame opener based on the woman’s type and not treating her as a 25th approach of the day on your practice battlefield. Don’t for the daygame openers in your head, look at the woman and observe what exactly caught your eye about her and use that in your opener as so: “when you walked past, I noticed your beautiful shiny hair and how you carry yourself with so much grace that I had to absolutely stop to tell you that you have this charming look about you which I couldn’t resist “ Yes, this sounds overly complicated, but this kind of self expression comes from your deep inner core so forget rehearsed daygame openers and begin going 100% natural with your daygame openers. Avoid using the same lines, time after time because it will lead you down the wrong path in your goal to become consistently good. Trust me when I tell you to avoid rehearsed bullshit daygame openers that gurus taught you. It’s a shameless tactic to get you quick results that are not lasting. Yes it may impress the girl and she may eventually even give you her number, but never to be seen again because you failed to actually make a real connection. You failed to express your desire from your desire and thus no real connection was made there. You may try rehearsed daygame openers the first 20-50 times and get your feet wet, but you want to get away from memorized routine lines as soon as possible if you want real consistent results down the line.
- Body Language generates 80 percent of attraction in my opinion and it’s far more important than your canned daygame openers. (These terms make me laugh sometimes) Your body language reflects your inner world far more than you could think because you can’t see yourself from the outsiders point of view. Body language is the subconscious type of cue that tells a woman a lot more about you than your cute rehearsed story or daygame openers will.
- Tonality and delivery are important tweaks that get you the 9s and 10s once you nail your delivery and tonality. This will come from your experience and you will eventually find your inner voice that brings out calm, confident conversations. Being in the moment and speaking from a place of authenticity and pure observation is what’s gonna help you deliver your words and create strong attraction and nail tonality.
- Speaking from your core means you’re not scared to express how you truly feel. If you find that love a woman’s ass, tell her “ I adore the way you move, with so much elegance, and your ass looks fantastic “. What’s important in delivering this properly is to say this line in a way that’s isn’t expecting any kind of good or bad response. You’re not expecting a bad reaction or a thank you, and you’re not seeking a reaction. You say it in an unapologetic, unforgiving almost obnoxious voice from your deep that basically tells her “ I’m a raw beastly man who is ok with his sexuality and wants to express his sexual desires in a healthy way and is not afraid to take risks for what he desires because he is congruent with his inner core desires “. That is true authentic confidence at it’s core and when you’re able to tap into that core consistently, that alone will skyrocket your daygame result to a consistent level.
Happy daygaming, and don’t forget to leave your rehearsed Daygame Openers in your dark basement in a black box that you’ll never open again.