Body Language Training in Daygame
Body language training in daygame is useless because it’s all about inner game, limiting beliefs, and a ton of practice. Let me elaborate further on this and prove to you that it’s vital to master your inner state, emotions, resolve inner conflicts and establish an unbreakable core full of confidence. I can guarantee you that, ultimately if you take care of those points above, and the ones I cover below, you won’t need time to waste on body language training, as it will take care of itself automatically .
Inner game: Inner game consists of many sub groups that help you build a core confident self-concept of your truly desirable persona. There are certain beliefs that you currently have in place about women, that may potentially stop you from achieving an ultimate dating experience. It’s rather impossible to cover inner game in a paragraph or one post but I will provide some insights into its existence and why it’s so essential to master it before you move onto body language training.
Inner game consists of: limiting beliefs, self-concept and self belief, how you build it up from zero, motivation to push yourself outside your comfort zone, self-acceptance, learning from mistakes, applying new ideas and experimenting constantly to push yourself outside your limiting beliefs, comfort zone and consistently making your core stronger every day with social experiments, infield – practice, deep analysis, and further theory refinement. That in a nutshell is a process worth going through constantly. Addressing those points will help you get to a higher dimension before your body language training kicks in.
Mastering your inner state and emotions: If you’re constantly tired and have no motivation in life to go out 3-5 times a week to improve your game or have a large ego, you will never succeed in daygame.
For example, let’s picture you’re talking to a girl; She throws a test your way or tries to make you react a certain way, but you’re easily swayed by her lack of responses to your jokes. Your inner state is weak, your emotions are all over the place and you’re not really a strong dominant man deep inside because a slight change in the external environment makes you explode with anger,sadness or other kind of reactions. Strong alpha males are non-reactive to the external stimulus (verbal or non-verbal).
The environment never dictates their reality, so their emotions are only internally influenced, and this unless they decided that a change is required from within not much is going to influence them from the outside world. This is a dominant core, because the external environment listens to their internal. It’s a one way road.
Resolve inner game conflicts: We all have limiting beliefs about money, wealth, jobs, relationships and preconceived notions about topics and issues surrounding those areas of our life that help us define our life in a certain way and ultimately shape our personality.
You must understand that as you shaped your beliefs previously and have a particular understanding of something, it’s not set in stone and can be altered with the right “programming” tools. If you believe that women don’t really like being approached or don’t like sex, is that going to help you approach women successfully? Is that strong belief going to limit you from achieving a full dating abundant dating life?
I would say yes, because such a strong conflicting belief will make you stifled in your interactions and make you appear non-congruent with your approach. If you touch a woman or stop her on the street, you know deep down she doesn’t like that, but you’re pushing it on her anyway, that will definitely make your approach seem somewhat weak, because she feels you lack full understanding of the sexual nature that women posses. Therefore you would fail a lot more.
a) brute force – Will yourself into so many approaches that you become anesthetized to the nausea of AA and build a stronger framework around your self-concept. This is the most prevalent, tough love approach in the PUA community.
b) becoming delusional – Make yourself so oblivious to reality that no negative feedback penetrates your outer shell. Shrug of all rejection like a tank being fired at with small bullets.
c) neutralising it – Dig deep into your identity and learn to accept yourself. Become so strongly internally referenced that the feedback of reality can be seamlessly integrated without challenging your self-worth. This is the best approach without much negative consequences later on.
I hope my article will help you blast through the idea that you need to body language training.