3 Easy Fixes For Horrible Mistakes In Your PUA Text Game
Going back to the direct style of game, right from the start when you try to get a woman on a date don’t mention anything about a “meet up” or a “hang out”. You want to make sure she’s showing up with the expectation of a man to woman vibe. Even if your hook point was really spot on, you’re not fully aware how interested she is so the temptation to soft-pedal the invitation is super strong. Avoid the newbie move of weaselling her out onto a date and hiding your intent.
Constant Mistakes In Your PUA Text Game Will Teach You To Stop Framing Your Messages In a “It’s Not a Date” Way.
As you start out with daygame, you’ll be struggling to get solid numbers because your behavioural low value conveyance and in-set work lead to extracting numbers rather than having these numbers freely given to you.
Perhaps, you turned of your intent so much that she thinks of you as a friend, or gives you a number to be polite or worse, gives it to you just to get rid of you. Perhaps, you also tried to override a genuine boyfriend objection in the set and it didn’t pan out well.
Thus, you overvalue the one single lead you “capture” and text your way into LonelyVille with a population of 1. I’ve been there and done that. It’s a bad place to be in, but it gets better and you learn quickly to grow as a person and improve your game massively. When this happens, you’re happy to get her on a date for “date practice”, and so you low ball it and hide your intent. STOP THIS RIGHT NOW.
The Endless Loophole of Self-Serving Lies That Are Killing Your PUA Text Game
Another typical struggle many new guys are experiencing is lack of entitlement and reference experiences, and thus fail to endure the pressure of potentially “loosing this girl”.
After all you’ve succeeded, right? You’ve gotten the number. It’s just a “matter of time right”.
Somewhere deep down, you fail to believe that you deserve this girl and the typical symptoms of this disease include the following;
a) becoming a massive approach machine who never puts his personality on the line
b) Complete reliance on routines with the exact same opener every time
c) Avoiding to ask for the digits
d) And texting for ions before asking for the hot date
e) Failing to confront your emotional disbelief and lack of entitlement to avoid self-sabotage
Learn to embrace the moments with potential pit falls and rejection around the corner. Don’t worry about the date just yet, and simply focus on getting yourself through this stage.
Drill this concept in your head right now. The purpose of texting is to get the date. That’s it. Once in a while there might be girls that might be logistically unavailable and we’ll get into those exceptions in a different post, but begin thinking of texting as a highway you’re on towards many potential dates.
You’re basically a race car streaming down the highway top speed and attempting to get to your final destination (date) as soon as possible with short game and avoid falling into the long game trap.